7.31.2008
We got Iowa!
7.30.2008
Stop grunting!
So, what do I do? I mimic the grunt, a little louder though. Well, every time after that when Diego grunted, Andrew and Tatiana would mimic him, except more dramatic...and repetitively, they would make the noises... You can just imagine what they sounded like!!! Argh! What have I done? I'm just hoping I don't have to explain this to a teacher next year when Andrew finds a "grunter" in school!!! Yikes! But ya gotta laugh, this was so totally innocent!
Waahoo for Illinois!
7.29.2008
The Duewel Family Visit

7.28.2008
Why New York? (Part Three)

Wow! How do I begin...? Sherri is amazing! When praised, she often reflects on God's goodness and His mercy for getting her through. She does --really give God all the glory!
Sherri not only verbalizes how God has carried her and Joel through this journey, but also through her actions and behaviors she exemplifies godly character. She has much grace, much patience, and cares deeply for her family and others. She is disciplined in seeking the Lord through time in the Bible and prayer.
Watching her move about to care for the daily tasks and routines in her home, again, I am amazed. I tried to take some of that responsibility away from her while I was there, but I felt in some ways she tried to entertain me and didn't want me to do those things. I really pray that in some small way I was an encouragement to her, and not a burden. She'd never tell ya if you were, I don't believe! :o)
I was so blessed to meet this person I had only known thru emails, blog updates, and conversations over the phone. I believe God is bringing people across the nation together to unite for Kingdom purposes...and He is using Isaac to draw many.
As she faces trials daily, she stands on the promises that God has made to her and Joel claiming those promises over Isaac and her family. But like with many of us, when we've been battered in the storm for so long, we tend to weaken and let down our guard, and fear may seem to filtrate thru...like Peter who walked on the water, and then suddenly began to sink. Why did he sink? Was it because he looked at the circumstances around him? No, No, I'm not saying Sherri is sinking! That may have been a bad analogy...but I am saying, it's a whole lot easier for us who are just watching from inside the boat. Sherri and Joel have taken God at His word and have stepped out in faith.
God didn't mean for her to carry this alone. She has an awesome husband who is a great help. She has a few friends who are also great encouragers and have helped provide care for Isaac. Several of you in the blogosphere are part of that network that God has raised up to surround her with prayers of love and encouragement. Please do not neglect to do so.
In a situation like this, it is easy for feelings of discouragement and despair to overwhelm them. As Isaac continues to throw tantrums for unknown reasons, it would be easy to lose patience and begin to believe lies of the enemy and to personalize those things and feel rejected by him. I don't believe in my heart that is the case at all. I believe Isaac loves his family very much and would love to tell them if he could. There are several other areas in which we could pray and uplift this family, and Sherri blogs about it each week. I ask of you to join me and the countless others who have agreed to stand with this family and pray. We want to see God's power move and manifest a perfect healing over Isaac's body; we want people touched by that miracle healing to come to know the Savior as who he is; we want God's will over the Cousineau Family.
Sherri is an awesome woman of God. I wish I was as disciplined and patient as she is. It was neat to see her and Joel interact; Joel is very supportive of her and she-him. They are a great couple! God knew right what He was doing when He chose them to be Isaac's parents! They are a special couple! And I am blessed to call them my friends! Thank you, Sherri and Joel for letting me and the kids come and visit. I love you all!
(Small note: Much of this post is a reflection of Sherri; this is not to negate the great impact this has on Joel and the character of God that he walks in. He is an awesome man of God who God has placed in a position of authority among leaders who he has been given opportunity to share and witness to!)
7.27.2008
50 State Challenge Update!!
Why New York? (Part Two)
So, hearing my daughter pray each day, reading Sherri's blog and talking with her from time to time, I found myself praying for her fervently, thinking often about Isaac... One Sunday, as I was praying for God to raise up a group of people to give her family additional support and encouragement, to uplift them in prayer, I felt impressed that God wanted me to go to New York! That's crazy, what could I do, I thought? I hate flying! We don't have the money...my excuses and thoughts raced on!
If I went, I wanted to take Tatiana with me so she could come back and tell her brothers that Isaac is real! He's not just a photo on the web! And she could pray for him in person! Thinking Ben would dismiss the idea, I told him! He said "Go!" What? Then all the reasons why I couldn't raced through my mind again...then, I told God if it were him, I needed him to give me the opportunity at work to make some extra money to go...Haha...the next month or so, I did have extra calls, paying for me, Tatiana and even Andrew to go to New York! God is good! I've said before, "If it's His will, He'll foot the bill!" He did!
Sherri, Caleb and Isaac met us at the airport. I had no idea what I was going to do there. My hope was that I could just be some sort of "help" to them, and maybe allow time for Sherri and Joel to get out of the house and spend time together. Deep in my heart, I wanted to see miracles happen... I wanted to see things manifest as we had been praying for... I wanted to see my friend smile and be encouraged!
Meeting Isaac: It was so awesome to see the little guy that I had been praying over for so long! He is beautiful! His locks are gorgeous! And don't underestimate him...he's smart and can be a little manipulative, too (kids learn early!)...One thing I learned right away, Isaac loves his big brother, Caleb!
I had the opportunity to help Sherri at feeding times; and I was so blessed to even be able to do that. Some may think this isn't so a big deal, but it is concerning Isaac. You see all his food must be blended up before he can eat to prevent choking and he must have a certain medicine mixed in with it. Isaac has problems controlling the muscles in his jaws/mouth. I'm sure this is as frustrating to Isaac as it would be to others when given food it usually comes right back out. You had to be quick to catch it! I think by the end of my stay I was getting more comfortable with it and not stressing so much as itt dripped onto his bib.
One really cool thing that Sherri and Joel have taught Isaac since they've been home is when he's finished eating, he lifts and swings his arm forward, toward the spoonful you're about to try to give him, and this signifies that he's finished eating! I thought that was so neat! I would try to give him more just for laughs and giggles, and to say "I've been swatted by Isaac!"
My concern before I went was a fear that Isaac was really fragile. Of course, he is, but at the same time he's not. What does that mean? Well, I'm not totally sure if this is the correct jargon, but if Sherri reads this post maybe she'll correct. Isaac "hyperextends" (?) his legs almost all the time. It is difficult to get him in the "sitting" position. You must actually bend his limbs. Sometimes he is okay with that and others, he might fuss. I remember sitting outside in the back yard with him watching the other kids playing. As I was praying for the limbs to strengthen, and Isaac to have normal motor functioning, I thought about how much that Isaac must want to just get out of that body and run and jump and play... My heart hurt for my little friend. It also frustrated me as I could not explain why God would not just heal him, why God would linger...
Isaac didn't seem to throw a lot of tantrums while I was there for the most part except at night, and when Sherri and I took the other children to the zoo, and left him with Joel. During the night, I didn't know how they would feel if I got up to check on him when I heard him crying. I also was kindof scared. What if I couldn't get him to stop crying? One of my thoughts were to just check on him, if all was okay, just let him cry; he'll stop eventually right, a tantrum...well, Sherri won't do that. Why? She is SO considerate. While we were there, she didn't want it to disturb us, but then she also does that each night, because she wants her husband to get enough rest for work. Joel is a state trooper and often that job title comes with excessive stress alone. How considerate. How selfless! I can't imagine how that would wear on the body night after night, day after day...I was only there for a few days. I only had a glimpse of what their life was like.
Isaac also has special chairs, toys, and other neat things to help him in his therapies. The chairs are very helpful. One chair that he uses when he eats braces his head somewhat. Isaac isn't able to hold his head up very well and it sort of rolls from side to side instead of turning side to side, unless he has that bracing it. He does very well at following people or things with his eyes! I asked several times, "Where's big brother?" He would smile usually, and find Caleb with his eyes! Caleb often showered Isaac with hugs and kisses. He is a great big brother!
Isaac also has this neat stretchy fabric that Sherri and Joel or the therapist use to toss or swing him in the air. Sherri and I did this with Isaac for what seemed like FOREVER!!! I'm sure it was only a few minutes, but sheesh! I had to use a lot of self talk ("I will not let this baby fall. I will not drop this baby!") I'm weak! Sherri has gained much arm muscle from this new addition! It was pretty cool, though, and Isaac loved it! And, it's a great workout for those arms!
Isaac also had braces on his legs to help straighten his feet and certain bones at the bottom of his feet. Before I left, Sherri commented on how she thought a muscle in his calf had formed on the top of the brace. She was going to talk with the doctor at the next appt concerning that.
Isaac is a beautiful child. I can only imagine what he will be like running and jumping around one day! I can only imagine what stories he will share when he is able to communicate verbally. I can only imagine what goes through his little mind right now... I thank God for him, and I know God has a great plan for this little child and this family.
I thank God for letting me be part of their story in some little way... I believe this story is so much bigger than Isaac, than the Cousineau family, than the sickness, it's big! Please help me pray for his complete healing and strength for Sherri and Joel as they face daily challenges caring for him, as they wait for that healing...
(Why New York? Part Three --What I learned about Sherri & Conclusion)
7.26.2008
Whoops! Error State Challenge-Mami Card Comment--
7.25.2008
Texas is in! What about Oklahoma and Idaho?
A Mommy-Card Discount---for you guys!!!! Thanks, Anna!
Please support her as she has begun to support us and our bloggin' sisters, as well as Isaac and his family thru prayer!
Thanks again, Anna! You're awesome and what a special blessing!
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7.24.2008
Why New York? (Part One)
Why New York? Do you ever feel like God puts something on your heart and sometimes you wish you could just shake it, shake the thought, thinking-that couldn't be God?
Mami Cards!
I ordered the file for this card at fruitions.com for $20. I took the file to Staples and had them print on 50 cards for $4.99. I think it is the card quality about this I don't prefer. They are printed on a super thin glossy-like photo paper. I love the design, but hate the flimsy paper. I can upgrade at Staples for business cards, but they are a bit more expensive.

And then, the last one I ordered were from http://www.123print.com for $3.95 plus shipping; I used the business card vs. searching for the Mommy card on this site, because they were cheaper by a buck, but they had some cool designs like sports balls, and girly colors if you had the same sex children. I think this is very card quality. The only I think I would have done different would played with the font and changed it a little.
So, there they are! Tell me what you think! Which one do you like best?
7.23.2008
Yes! California is waving the banner on behalf of Isaac!
Tatiana & Isaac 7/04/08Presenting....Nate Duewel @ the Worship Center!
We have been so blessed to spend time with the Duewels' this week! They are an awesome couple. Sunday, I stood up in church to testify of God's goodness and totally embarassed myself in front of them! I am SO NOT a public speaker! I am just grateful for "God-connections" and am totally amazed how God networks the body of Christ together! Throughout our own story, our life, God has put people in our paths that we needed RIGHT at that time- just in time! God is so amazing!
What I tried to say in Church, but got all flustered and began studdering-like, was that Rena was one of those people! There was some point, I believe after we had returned from Colombia that Rena spoke with me or emailed and I was so encouraged. I don't even remember exactly what it was, but I remember thinking- "Wow...that's God!" Then, in several conversations with various other people in our adoption circle, I heard how Rena ministered to people over the phone giving words of encouragement and that really blessed them. Well, I want to be like that- a blessing to another person. I think God would have us to be like that.
As I continued to talk in Church, I began getting teary-eyed when I shared a little about my experience in New York. I explained how the adoption support group was very beneficial to me. God used Sherri as well as Rena in my life to encourage and uplift me and my family in prayer. I am so very grateful for Sherri. Even though, we aren't really close, I feel we are. It doesn't make sense to a lot of people, but because I have invested so much time in thoughts and prayers over that family, I feel so connected to her. So, anyways, I asked for their help and prayer for that family. I also requested help to accomplish the 50-state Challenge! Two from Mobile have committed to pray!
After I sat down, Ben gave Rena & Nate a better introduction, and Nate sang. Sounds pretty good, ey? Ya know, if we bombard their blog with "fan" mail, we may can convince him to post some more music!!!
7.22.2008
Washington is Covered!
A Faithful Servant
7.20.2008
Another Great Day!

The Duewels' came to Church with us today! We had a very special opportunity to hear Bro. Nate sing and play guitar! You would have loved it! I have a video clip of it to share pending permission! Here's a glimpse of what we looked like in the pew with our Colombian crew! The children really enjoyed each other. I wished we were closer because we enjoyed Nate and Rena as well! After Church, we went to dinner and then to Dauphin Island. We hope to meet up once more before they head North! Nate and Rena, You guys ROCK!
7.19.2008
Looking for prayer in Idaho & California!
the best summer yet!
Yea! Our New Friends! Andrew said, "Mami, I love my new friends!"A few nights ago, I got a surprise email from Rena! She and Nate decided to bring the family to the Coast! Road Trip! I was so excited! Earlier this summer, we were gonna try to meet up in the middle, but that didn't seem to work out. So, when I got the email, I was super-psyched to tell Ben! They drove in today. We went to dinner together, and then went back to their hotel to play in the swim pool.
Rena & ErikaRena & Nate are an awesome couple! I learned much about them thru following their journey. They have adopted a sib group of 4 from Colombia! So, we kindof had a little Colombian reunion tonight! The children had a lot of fun! Andrew, especially, likes the idea that he and Alex are 6!
Alex, Sebastian, Erika, and Luisa-- wow! They are beautiful! They have gorgeous hair! I think I may try to grow Diego's hair out like Alex and Sebastian's! They are so adorable!!!
They are going to come to Church with us tomorrow. Ben is preaching! After Church, we will go to Dauphin Island, hopefully and hang out some more. It has been such a treat! Rena has been real encouraging to me at times, and I appreciate her and her wisdom! She rocks! It is such a blessing to meet her and her family in person. They are great!
We got prayer in Maine!

7.18.2008
Waahoo! North Dakota!!!
A Prayer Sent on Behalf of Isaac from North Dakota:
Dear Wendy,
We do not have to tickle God's ear or tease Him to get Him to heal. He paid the price 2000 yars ago Isa 53 so that we could have our healing. We do not have to beg God for anything. It is His good pleasure to give us the Kingdom. He will not withhold any good thing from us. We need to appropriate what the Lord has freely already given. Notice in the godpels Jesus never begged God to heal someonw. He only spoke or commanded it and it was.
I take authority over the plans and schemes of Satan to bring destruction upon Issac. And in the name of Jesus I command a creative miracle into Issac's brain. I command those two gaps to be filled now with the brain matter needed for perfect brain function. Anything that is missing for perfect brain fuction I command it now to form and come together as the Lord designed it to be in Jesus' name. I speak and release life into Isaac. I speak peace and joy into Issac. I call forth his purpose and destiny to be established and fullfilled. I thank you Lord for Issac and the GOOD plan you have for him. It is a good plan, not an evil plan. It is a plan to prosper him to give him a good future and a good hope. I thank you Lord that all your promises are yes and amen. And thank you Lord for a miracle for Issac. In your wonderful name Jesus!! Amen
Keep us informed Wendy
~Georgene Heitz New Hope Healing Rooms~Beulah, ND
7.17.2008
Change Promotes Growth
I really don't like change! I am a person who likes to know what's coming next...and routines are good for me. I like structure! Don't get me wrong- I do like positive change, but if I'm involved I like to buy into it and understand what's going on! I don't do chaos well!
As a new mom, I am adjusting! I am changing! God is helping me rearrange some things in my own life! There is chaos and sometimes, even with a routine! There are unscheduled surprises- well, almost daily! I've found that sometimes even the most trivial things can shake me up! I'm learning to "flex" though! God is good and even thru transition and the difficult part, He remains faithful to draw people by my side to help thru the valleys, to encourage me, to inspire me... I am so very blessed!
What about you? Do you feel like your life is in a state of chaos? Has God made some rearrangements in your home? Have you? Are there changes in you or your situation whether at home, work or play that need to be made? Is there something you could change to make life less chaotic and more enjoyable and peaceful?
7.16.2008
Here's one for ALABAMA!!!
Appraisal & Coco Loco
This evening, we went to Coco Loco's. The children love to eat there, and the servers always come and play with the kids. Tonight, they were talking to them in Spanish and seemed disappointed that they couldn't understand them! I was too! How I wish I could speak that language! I guess this provokes me to do another lesson on rosetta tonight! I want to get them on it too, but I need a separate computer, as the headphones/microphone part doesn't work on the laptop. I can hear, but it doesn't pick up my response. Anyways, I feel as if the children have lost part of who they are and their culture, because we weren't able to keep them fluent.
Oh yeah, tonight, Tatiana said-- "Mami, my chi-chi hurts!" Ugh, does this mean a UTI??? Guess I will try to get an appointment for her tomorrow at the doctor's. What do I do to make it better? I know for adults they take AZO standard or a generic for pain and use an antibiotic, but what do they make for kids? Has anyone else had experience with UTIs in children? (Is this appropriate for the blog?)
"this is a hot mess!"
BUT, now that I've ranted about that, it's nice to have TWO children in school now! Tatiana is really excited about starting school as well! We must be on the look-out for a pink mesh book bag! Andrew will be the big brother and watch after her. He likes that idea too!
We talked about trying to get Diego in a private school next year since he has a late birthday so we won't lose that year. And then, we would switch him to the public school in first grade. We will further investigate that later this year.
7.14.2008
The "W" States
7.13.2008
Hiding in the Shell! Taking a Break from It All!
(These pics were taken the last day we were in Rochester with Sherri and Caleb!)
7.12.2008
Yes, God! Yes! Waahoo for Wisconsin!
Waahoo! Kentucky is covered!!!
7.11.2008
Yes! Arkansas Covered!!!
7.10.2008
7.09.2008
Arkansas, Idaho, Kentucky & Maine!

Won't you join in prayer with me and this family? God has a great plan for Isaac and his family even now as they journey thru this valley. Sherri and Joel have heeded to the voice of the Lord and stood in the gap for Isaac when no one else would. Please support them thru your prayer and encouragement as they continue to provide him with the love and support Isaac needs so very much! Thank you in advance!
A weird dream...
I dreamed that my sister was alive. Then, the dream went to her and there were two other friends with her hovering over the open hood of her car. Shanda was trying to remove the engine from the car. Apparently, the car had broke down, and she was trying to overhaul it or whatever. Well, the next image that came to me in the dream was her friends telling me she died trying to take the engine out of the car!
In the dream, I was very distraught and angry. I found myself blaming another person for this tragedy that was so very preventable (or so it seemed in the dream). I awoke crying!
Is that weird or what? I began praying. God, what in the world? My sister is dead! How I wish her death were a mere dream...but she's dead now! Why am I crying? I'm mad she's dead! What are you trying to say to me, Lord? Or is this just my mind in overdrive?
Well, tonight, I called my brother and told him of the "weird dream" and he didn't have much to say...and as I turned on the radio to American Family Radio, I heard the Yousef (spelling?) guy preaching. He began this sermon talking about a car who's engine light comes on and says "engine trouble", and fear and faith, spending time with God, and more.
Ok, so, was this just a coincidence? What do you think?
Hammock Entertainment!
I'm not sure if Mr. Joel appreciated this... I tried to tell the children this was a "grown-up toy" and we didn't want to tear it up... I sure hope they didn't find anything broken after we left...
More to come later!
A God-Connection!
I will post more about that later...but wanted to post some pics before I was off to work! Tatiana and Andrew also went with us...they did great flying, and for the most part were great while there. Andrew was a little on the hyper side, and Sherri has a 2-story with a staircase, so you can imagine the chasing and stomping around in the house, along with the laughter and giggling! They had a great time with Caleb and Isaac, and let me not forget- Mr. Joel or "Senor Joel"!




7.04.2008
7.03.2008
We're going to New York!
7.02.2008
Cut! Cut! Cut!

Yesterday, Tatiana and I got to go to Splendor Salon in Gulfport. We usually make these trips every 8-12 weeks to see Angela. Saturdays are our days of choice; however, we had to cancel our appt last weekend because of the VBS finale. Tatiana loves it. Before we left, Beamie asked if the boys would be going to...she said quickly, "NO! Girls Only!" Funny!

