Tonight, we sat around the dinner table and began talking about babies. Andrew began talking about how I used to take care of him in Colombia when he was a baby and he wore a diaper and I would hold him in my arms and rock him (he gestured this). Hmm...how do you reply to that?
Not sure if it were the best one, but I said, "No, baby...that was your foster mami who changed your diaper and took care of you...but only until Mami and Papi could come and get you...and bring you home with us."
He seemed to accept that well with an "Oh! Okay!"
And then immediately, he began sharing all these things we did in Colombia when we first met the children even right down to the color of car we gave him and Diego! He was remembering details that I had forgotten! It was neat to hear him talk more about when we first met him. It seemed for a long time that they had forgotten what had happened. I just dismissed it thinking that it was way too much for their tiny minds to handle at the time. But he remembers!
I stopped trying to explain the birthmother - adopted mom stuff, and just be "mami". I figure Andrew will ask me when the time comes and that will be the time when his little mind will be able to comprehend it. Plus, I think God will open doors for those conversations and I pray that He will give me the right words to say at that time as well.
It's been almost a year! We are so absolutely in love with our children! They are great! Tonight, after dinner, they were playing in Tatiana's room. I was lying on her bed while they were playing beside it. Diego was the doctor and Tatiana and Andrew were babies! Diego looked so serious as he tore color book pages into strips and pretended it was medicine. He would command them to do things and when one baby would disrupt him, he would abruptly say, "Be quiet, no talking!" Precious moments! Then later Ben came in, and the kids decided to start doing flips and cart-wheels! Andrew can now do a flip, instead of a flop! Tatiana is trying to get the cart-wheel down pat, as is Diego. Diego taught Andrew how to flip!
Then, we read a Bible story about Jesus healing people. I asked them who they knew who needed healing. What's healing? Duh! So, I explained that, and they each named persons including our little friend, Isaac, our cousin, Mami (sinus), and then named some people in the church, as Papi reminded us. I asked them if God healed the person in the story. Yes, they shook their head. He did, in fact, he healed several people. My next question was -do you think he can heal us and all of these other people? "Yes!" they each said excitedly. Then, one by one, they began claiming healing over several of those whom we are close to and even mentioned things they were thankful for and their owies that were healed in the past. God still heals today! I can't wait to see those miracles come forth!
Ben preached yesterday about being serious about prayer...about prayer being the Cinderella of the church...about if our financial life looked like our prayer life, we'd be bankrupt! and maybe if we spent as much time in prayer or devoted to the word as we did work or spend in front of other objects of worship (tv and computer, for me!) that we might see some of those miracles that were promised...are we desperate enough? Hmm....it was quite the sermon...very piercing to the soul. I had to evaluate my own spiritual standing...am I right with God? He was so right! We started off really strong with the kids and seemed to have slacked with the school and work schedule made Bible and worship difficult each night...and we have let some nights slip...but why not put in a worship DVD instead of cartoons? Why not send them to their rooms 15 mins early to look at their Bible (because they aren't able to read it yet) and to think about all that God has done for them throughout that day? And then, Ben and I could go in and share by reading the Bible and praying...I definitely want to be more Christ centered and family focused. So, I have been cutting back the time I spend on the computer while at home. At work, it is easy for me to check my other blogging buddies and post comments, but at home, I am going to try to be more sensitive about my time and focus more on God and the family...anyways, if you guys have any tips on how you teach your children about the Bible, I would love to know. Or if you are aware of any Bible video series that are good to help them understand more...please comment. Thanks!
5.26.2008
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This blog was so heart-warming! We miss you guys and wish we could have a visit soon. Elijah brought Tatiana's name up while he was playing in the bathtub the other night. He hasn't forgot his cousins! We love ya'll!
What an encouraging post! I'm right with you, less internet, more family. You have permission to not leave comments on my blog, and or read it! And I love Ben's comments on prayer. And we might see miracles, but are we desperate enough? Hmmm, some things to think about!
Love you guys!
Sherri
PS- I also enjoy the moments you shared about the kids. I think you're right about adoption conversations, they'll come at those God moments.
As long as Caleb has been around we read through his children's bible start to finish and it astounds me all that he remembers and knows. I think it's simply being consistent about reading and talking to them about what they have learned in Sunday school. And just talking about the Lord as situations arise, when you rise up, when you walk along the way etcetera.
As far as videos the simple beginner's bible ones are pretty good. But I like reading them the best. And I always tell him if something is amiss and that we need to check everything against the word of God, sometimes the authors take liberties in their story telling. Where does it say there were three wise men? It doesn't, I just learned that at age 28.
OK, I have blabbed enough and am breaking my own vow to get OFFLINE :)
GREAT post! First, God will ABSOLUTELY open doors for adoption conversations. He certainly presented me with the perfect opportunity and circumstance to talk to Kyle about his adoption AND the perfect situation to make Kyle understand it all. I was always incredibly worried about how it would "come out" with Kyle and it came out perfectly. YAY GOD!
So, I believe He will give you the situation and circumstances and words that are perfect for you when He decides it's time.
As for the best resources for teaching your kids about the Bible, I need all the help I can get too. I'd love it if you'd share any info you get! :)
peace and blessings.
jenn
Great post Wendi! I've also had to re-evaluate how I spend my time with Nate and what I need to be teaching him. I'm a personal fan of the Veggie Tales videos because they teach both spiritual and moral values. They also take scripture and teach kids to "live" it, not just read it.
Another possibility is some awesome curriculum we use at our church. It's a dvd lesson series by Saddleback Community Church that is hip, funny and power packed with teaching kids about scriptures. They learn hand motions to memory verses to help them remember and it comes with handouts that include parent/child discussions about the lesson. You can go to their website at www.empoweringkids.net and download some sample videos to look at. The only thing is that you have to pay for all 8 lessons at once ($159) but that comes out to about $20 per dvd lesson plus handouts and activity pages.
I know God will direct you and guide you on what you need to help raise these kids to be Christ-followers!
I just checked your blog to see how you were doing. Your family is so amazing! Thanks for sharing them with all of us.
Michelle McKinney
(mom to Jaxon and Levi)
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